Respect the man-to-woman contract
Every time I come back to Germany after a Euro jaunt1 in Eastern Europe, I think the same thing: daygame in the West is harder than it should be. Nothing groundbreaking, I know, but the contrast hits me fresh every time. Girls here seem clueless about what I call the man-to-woman contract:
It seems that getting to know girls through apps or social circles has become the norm. When I was in places like Hungary or Romania, you could feel how, after every approach, the girls just respected you for approaching them. They respect a man who has the balls to stop them during the day with genuine intent. In fact, in Germany, my best daygame interactions usually involve girls from these kinds of countries.
Now, what does this tell us about daygame in Western countries? Is it a lost cause? Should you completely abandon it for online or social game? Certainly not. Throughout the years I learned to accept the states of matter. Instead of moaning about how bad it is, it was wiser to keep pushing forward, supplementing my pickup diet with the first occasional and then more frequent Euro/international jaunts. That is, with dedication and perseverance, even in countries like Germany or the UK, it is possible to have good results. Yet, for some reason, I still find it a more satisfying and fulfilling experience when I can meet women who understand the man-to-woman contract. I’m addicted to the “dance” that results from an interaction with a girl that “gets it”: the eye contact, the blushing cheeks, the twirling of the hair… I just love it!
A trip to Europe, especially Easter Europe, completely or mostly dedicated to pick-up.↩