Reflection on the year 2025
The year 2025 started very slowly for me. I spent the first four months not doing much in terms of game because, guess what? I had a girlfriend. She was smart, young, and more importantly very pretty. Basically, everything chody me had dreamed of. Since then things have changed, and this was not enough for me anymore. By the time we hit the six-month mark, things were starting to become dull and I was yearning for something new, something different. I missed being in the game, I missed hitting the streets, and the thrill of being one approach away from a new lay.
By April I had had enough and decided to “shoot the puppy.” Immediately after breaking up with her, I booked a flight to Warsaw with no clear plan. I just had to leave.
For the rest of the year I mainly traveled back and forth between Frankfurt and Warsaw. I did most of my game in Warsaw, with some occasional visits to Wroclaw and Poznan. I felt stifled in Frankfurt. I was no longer used to the dynamics of German girls and wasn’t even interested in doing approaches while I was there. I turned my whole focus to Poland and treated Germany as a refuge whenever I needed a break.
All in all, I did much less than in previous years. This year I didn’t hit my usual average of 22–24 lays. Most of the time I was too lazy to even approach and just couldn’t be bothered. I guess I needed a bit of a break after going full steam over the past few years and needed a less busy year.
For 2026, I definitely want to change that. I’m not getting any younger, and I’m thinking it’s now or never to rack up more lays. This winter has been very cold, and it didn’t help that I had to deal with some changes at work at the beginning of the year. Luckily, things have settled down now and I can start making proper plans for the year. I’ll probably shift my focus away from Poland and check out other destinations. My main objective is to at least hit my average of yearly lays.